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{啱聽} 木羽飛 與童同行 : 我不喜歡太聽話的孩子 ....!

23/9/2014

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木羽飛 與童同行 : 我不喜歡太聽話的孩子 (連結) :

聽話就是服從,無論大人說甚麼,孩子都言聽計從。說東往東、說西往西,不鑽空子、不挑戰權威。唔,怎說呢?這樣的小孩,很沒趣。

迎月夜,一家人晚飯後帶齊水果月餅到公園賞月,大人為了方便照顧,選定公園遊樂場側的一大塊空地坐下來。小孩看見不遠處的滑梯和鞦韆,幾乎都拔腿跑過去了,卻被大人們喝停,「那邊人多,我們別過去,留在這兒玩好了。

典型的「大人腔」,這要求,或許能等同於叫愛好搓麻將的大人,在麻將枱旁坐下看書一樣,想想都覺可笑。
記得小時候,每逢過年過節,大人總會聚在一起「開枱」,這就是我們的「快樂時光」了。麻將聲一起,我們幾個小豆丁便圍在一起商量對策,目的只有一個──怎樣才可去公園玩呢?
 
要達到目的,當中的考慮要非常周詳:在場有沒有大人可以帶我們到公園呢?誰比較容易下手?誰負責去遊說比較勝算高?大人們今天心情如何?甚麼時候是提出要求的適當時機呢?如果被拒絕,有沒有應變方案?

根據累積多年的經驗,我們歸納了幾個重點:千萬別在大人準備叫糊時提出要求;接近下午茶時段是最好的時機,玩完遊樂場,順道可以買麵包回來給大人醫肚。如果不幸被拒絕,要及時提出應變方案──「那麼我們到門外走廊玩捉迷藏可以嗎?」(那時親戚住的是井字型公屋,上下三層捉迷藏,好玩極了。)因為已主動退一步了,這麼一問,大人通常點頭示好,鐵閘一開,我們就像放白鴿一樣飛出去了。

這種集體動腦筋的過程,比現時坊間任何一種解難興趣班更有效用。

把這些兒時往事告訴八歲半的大女兒,笑對她說:「所以,你們真的好聽話,我嫌你們太聽話。」怎知她悄悄的回說:「媽咪,其實那天的遊樂場看來不太好看,所以我才沒強求……如果是XXX遊樂場,我怎可能坐著不去!」




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