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【爸爸公子】梁繼璋 : 同理心 ....!

13/7/2014

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父母教導孩子,除了基本的生活技巧外,其實很多做人的道理,也絕對不能缺少。

生活技巧,他慢慢從其他人身上,總能學懂一二,但做人處世的道理,如果父母不教,可能他永遠也不會懂。

同理心,就是今日的孩子非常需要學習的一種品格。「同理心」,Empathy,意思是站在別人立場,設身處地思考的一種態度。在人與人的溝通過程中,同理心,能幫助我們體會和體諒別人的立場,減少人與人的紛爭。

或許,單從理論來說,同理心還是很虛無飄渺的一個名詞,但若果舉一些生活上的實例,便可真正明白怎樣才算是擁有同理心了。

① 主動幫助別人

看見人家手上拿着大包小包,你會代為拉開大門,讓他進入嗎?當你站在升降機內,有人正向電梯跑來,你會主動按下開門鍵嗎?在地鐵車廂內,看見有需要人士,例如:老人家、傷殘者、孕婦等,你會主動讓位嗎?

以上種種,不單只小孩子未必會做,就連很多成年人,也會視而不見。

② 在公眾場合少點喧嘩

你可能很陶醉手機內一個遊戲,你可能和朋友正在高興地談天,你可能正在聲嘶力竭地教小朋友,但你又可知道,你那雄渾的聲量,正在影響身邊的人?如果你只是抱着:「我喜歡,你管得着!」這種心態,又怎算有同理心?

③ 在私人場合也少點喧嘩

在公眾場合不能太嘈吵,那回到自己家,就可以大吵特吵吧?本來是如此,但有些人濫用這份自由,把電視的聲浪調高到電影院一樣,又或者在夜深時,還在興高采烈地開party,打麻將,直至有鄰居投訴,才稍為收斂,你說,這樣的行為,是否很討厭?

④ 隨手隨處掟垃圾

不少車主,一邊吸煙一邊駕車,煙吸完了,就一手把煙頭彈走,哪管它會不會灼到行人,也有一些人,不論大小垃圾,隨手就從窗口拋下街,哪怕弄污環境,也容易弄傷別人,諸如此類的行為,也是缺乏同理心之過。

⑤ 虐待動物

媒體上不時會揭發一些虐待小貓小狗的個案,有些可能傷及四肢,有些甚至性命也失去。很多個案,犯案者不是大奸大惡之徒,只是為了一時高興,而冷血地做出很多殘忍的行為。為甚麼小動物的悲鳴和鮮血,都不能使他們收手呢?因為,他們沒有同理心,感受不到人家的痛苦。

⑥ 不要插隊

每人也要等候,因為如果你插隊,被你插隊的人,就要等上更長時間,而這是不公平的,但在某些人眼中,「我趕時間」是最大的理由。總之我不想等,因此就要插隊了。

看完以上種種,你或許就會明白,為甚麼社會上有那麼多人,會做出這麼乞人憎的行為。因為,他們沒有同理心。

作為父母,你是不是應該教曉孩子,同理心的重要?

http://eastweek.my-magazine.me/index.php?aid=34044



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