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【養兒防老新解】孩子拯救老油條大行動 .....!

14/12/2014

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木羽飛 | 與童同行 – 2014年12月1日星期一下午2:01 孩子拯救老油條大行動 (連結) :

最近重讀楊照老師寫給愛女的文章,裡面提到現代「養兒防老」的概念,很值得現今香港爸媽們細味。
 
楊照老師說,昔日的「養兒防老」有點「積榖防饑」的味道,就是爸媽養兒然後等兒女長大養爸媽。這概念,現今社會顯然行不通了。「不過,最近看到社會上發生的種種騷亂,讓我對於『養兒防老』有了一些新的領悟。」
「『老』是甚麼?在體能體力衰退之前,從我多年認識的人身上,我看到另外的變化。那就是:原本年輕時代的理想與夢想褪色了,現實與世俗的考量在生命中愈來愈重要,關於品格與原則的堅持也就一天天地鬆馳了……把小孩教好,給他們強烈的正直道德原則,是幫助自己對抗老化最好的準備。我們慢慢步入中年,小孩也慢慢成人,當我們進入受到最多現實誘惑的年代,多麼美妙地,我們的小孩也剛好長成充滿了熱情理想的年輕人,他們心底沒有那麼多黑暗的慾望,沒有那麼複雜的關係考量,他們還相信原則,還相信為了理想獻身的夢。」
 
這句話,讓我想起五年前一個後輩的說話:「寧做油炸鬼,別做老油條。」
 
那時候,因為不滿工作的新聞機構歪曲事實,我和外子雙雙辭掉工作。對於一個有孩子的家庭來說,這決定簡直是瘋了。當時,一位後輩就傳來一句這樣的說話,鼓勵和支持我們。
 
是的,到了我們這種年紀,很容易就會變成老油條了。凡事「包容」,凡事「相信」,凡事「忍耐」,這是老油條的生存之道,「係咁㗎啦!唔係你想點?」是老油條的口頭禪。多嚴重的事情,在老油條眼中,都不過是過眼雲煙。「你都明知無用㗎啦,慳返啖氣好過啦!」
 
這種說話,肯定高踞年輕人最討厭說話排行榜的頭十位。
 
我們常常以後,沒生育過的大人比較能抗衰老,外表上可能是,但心態上,楊照老師給了我們另一個視點:「小孩可以保存我們年輕時的理想夢想,當我們遺忘理想夢想時,對我們提醒:『你們以前不是這樣教我的!』當我們可能動搖,可能受到誘惑走上不正直的路時,對我們抗議:『不可以這樣!』年輕的小孩,回過頭來保護我們,不至於被時間侵蝕,遺忘遺失了自我,做出讓自己和別人覺得遺憾的事。」
 
孩子們,這可能是一場拯救老油條大行動,就像海星的故事,救得一個得一個好了,謝謝你們。



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