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{港媽面書} 潘澄 : 全職媽媽Q&A .....!

11/7/2014

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(連結) 好友C跟我同齡,因為種種原因,很遲才生育,我家老大升中三了,她那小寶貝今年九月才進幼稚園低班。刻薄點說句,兩公婆老來得子,疼錫得不得了。某日C小姐神神秘秘來電:「喂,你家陣得閒嗎?有事請教。」她明知我當了全職(冇工人)媽媽後,差不多每分每秒都忙得不可開交。「你叫到,乜事都要放低傾偈先啦。」「我……我想唔返工,想學你做全職媽媽。但阿XX話唔好,話會好悶喎,所以想問問你意見。」

請別誤會,阿XX不是她老公,而是另一個我們的朋友,一位身兼兩女之母的金融界翹楚。女強人怕回家,日常習慣將一屋瑣事全部外判給家庭傭工,要她放棄苦心經營多年的事業回家湊女,那實在是難以想像的一回事。但話時話,我當日何嘗不是在職場上獨當一面的悍將?好友C的來電,其實不是問意見,而是尋求認同,希望藉我把口,反駁阿XX的講法。

Q:全職媽媽日常生活很苦悶?

A:坦白說,我連想想自己到底生活得悶不悶的時間也沒有。所謂苦悶,可能是那些將所有工夫繼續交工人姐姐負責,自己天天行街購物扮靚的闊太吧。即使不用操勞家務,孩子的功課已夠你忙;孩子們總喜歡傾偈、說故事、做蛋糕等親子活動,全職媽媽實在值得多花點時間,好好享受上班時難得擁有的親子互動。

Q:過幾年子女長大了,他們便不會理我,到時怎麼辦?

A:今日唔知聽日事,過幾年?我連幾日後的光景也難以想像,何況幾年?所謂活在當下,意思就是在現在這一刻,做你覺得應該做的事吧。過幾年可能因為你多了時間與孩子們相處,大家變得更親密;過幾年可能正好因為你在家,順利地解決了孩子突然出現的困境;過幾年可能突然中了六合彩,連老公都可以選擇回歸家庭了……過幾年的事,過幾年才算吧。

Q:離開職場漸漸就會跟社會脫節,會否連跟子女溝通也有問題?

A:你以為現在是甚麼世代?在電腦、智能電話無處不在、互聯網無遠弗屆的社會,一個人若要脫節,跟你呆在公司抑或留在家中是完全沒有關係的,那純粹是一種個人選擇。家庭主婦在社會運動的影響力,隨着facebook與WhatsApp群組的氾濫,已變得不容小覷。

Q:沒有收入,會否連帶在家中的地位也會下降?

A:這點各位準全職媽媽真要預早做工夫,當你有份每月進貢家用的時候,及早將家中財政大權收歸私有。當上了財政司,擁有財富分配的話事權,誰是納稅人已不重要。

好友C說,現在每天離家,孩子就會扯着她的衫尾,哭求着要求媽媽不要上班,留中家中陪他。我說,這樣的時光,好快就會過去了。有些事,不容多想,應做就做吧!



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